Tuesday, September 23, 2014

It's Time to Play NFL Family Feud!

     The NFL is one big happy family, right? And just like any family, the league certainly has its... issues. Bad behavior, dysfunction and rivalries abound. But California, Florida, and New York have their very own special NFL families. They are the only states that are home to three NFL teams each. As we all know, in a family of three, only one gets to be the Middle Child. So, who are the lucky winners? You decide...

MY ANALYSIS: The Chargers finished 3rd in their division last year and made the playoffs. They finished 2nd the previous three years, and didn't make the playoffs. Sounds like Middle Child treatment to me. They finished 1st and made the playoffs five of the six seasons before that. The Raiders have built their reputation on being the "Bad Boys" of the league, but lately the only thing bad about them has been their on field performance. They haven't had a winning record in 11 seasons! The 49ers this, the 49ers that. Everyone just loves the 49ers! After eight years of mediocrity, along comes Jim Harbaugh (a Middle Child), and now all they do is win. MY PICK: The 49ers are good, the Raiders are bad, and the Chargers are right in the middle!


MY ANALYSIS: You could say it's been a roller coaster ride for the Bucaneers since joining the league in 1976, but it would be one of those really sucky roller coasters. They did win the Super Bowl in 2002, yet are also the not-so-proud owners of the 2nd worst all-time winning percentage, including an 0-14 record and 26 game losing streak -- the longest ever. By comparison, the Jaguars make the Bucs look like old timers. They really are babies, only playing with the other kids since 1995. No Super Bowls, but they already have 7 winning seasons, which way outpaces the elder Bucs. The Dolphins have quite an NFL resume: the "Perfect Season," multiple Super Bowl appearances, back to back Super Bowl victories, Dan Marino. Did I mention the "Perfect Season?" And even though that was all so long ago, they still have the 3rd best all-time winning percentage (.579) of any team. That's how good they used to be. MY PICK: None of these teams are very good right now, but at least people talk about the Bucs and the Phins -- even if it's for all the wrong reasons lately. The Jags really are a footnote -- Florida's Forgotten Football child. (FULL DISCLOSURE: I AM A LIFELONG DOLPHINS FAN.)


MY ANALYSIS: Even though the Bills have an all-time losing record, there was a time when they really mattered. Back in the day, they went to the Super Bowl four years in a row! Sure, they lost all four, but still. And even though it's been nine years since they've had a winning season, there seems to be a lot of upside. The downside? They are in Buffalo. The Giants and the Jets not only play in the same state, they have the odd distinction of playing in the same stadium. Yes, they have to share a room!! These two teams couldn't be more different. On the one hand, there's the brash-talking, trash-talking Jets and their loudmouth coach Rex Ryan. On the other, the nose-to-the-grindstone, down-to-business Giants and their mild-mannered coach what's-his-name. The Giants are an NFL Grand daddy. The Jets, an AFL upstart. The Giants have amassed nine league championships and Super Bowl victories, and played in 11 more. And even though the Jets have just one Super Bowl win in 1968 and haven't been back since, you'd never know it from the way they behave. MY PICK: This is a no-brainer. The Jets are clearly the attention seeking Middle Child of this group. (DID I MENTION THAT I'M A LIFELONG DOLPHINS FAN?)

     So, what do you think? I'd love to hear your thoughts.


Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Onward and... upward?

A Mid Kid's work is never done!
     It's been a little more than two weeks since Middle Child's Day, and here at the International Middle Child Union, we're already hard at work planning for the future. Speaking with people all across the country these past few weeks about Middle Child's Day, two things became very clear: 1) Most people still don't know when it is, and 2) August 12 is a totally random and obviously forgettable date. Let's be honest -- it's at the ass-end of summer, languishing in the no-man's land between Fourth of July and Labor Day. It's just begging to be overlooked. So I've decided to hijack Middle Child's Day and move it to a date that makes much more sense: July 2 -- the smack dab middle of the year, and right on the heels of Independence Day when everyone's already in a festive, celebratory mood anyway.
182 days on
either side.
     That's why today I am announcing the formation of the "Occupy Mid Kids Day" movement. Working together with the Middle Child Party, (which I also founded, so "working together" actually means I've joined forces with... myself), our goal is to rally support for this change. The move shouldn't meet a lot of resistance, since apparently nobody knows when Middle Child's Day is anyway!
While you're on Twitter, you might as well follow
@MidKidMusings, the official feed of the I.M.C.U. and
MCP, to receive updates on how things are progressing.
     Phase 1 of the movement is well underway. CLICK HERE to sign an on-line petition, or show your support simply by following @MoveMidKidsDay. I've also already contacted every U.S. Senator, Governor, and selected members of the House of Representatives, to enlist their support. Since it's not a federal holiday, it won't take an act of Congress to change the date. That's probably a good thing. But with all the partisan bickering that goes on, I suggested it might be a good idea to rally behind an issue that everyone can agree on for a change -- mostly because nobody really cares all that much.  I also pointed out this wouldn't be the first time a Middle Child holiday has been relocated. Even though Mid Kid Abe Lincoln was born on February 12, we now celebrate his birthday on the third Monday in February. So there's a precedent for this kind of move, or in this case maybe a President. (We also make him share his birthday, but that's another issue!)
     Preliminary feedback has been encouraging. Sen. Marco Rubio (FL) said he would "keep (my) ideas and views in mind." Sen. Al Franken (MN) took the time to scan his actual signature. And when Sen. Mark Begich (AK) says, "Your message has been received," maybe I'm being overly optimistic, but it sure sounds like he's on board to me! (BTW, we're even friends now!!)

Sen. Marco Rubio, FL
Sen. Al Franken, MN
Sen. Mark Begich, AK
     In Phase 2, I'll be reaching out to celebrity Middle Children and other high profile Mid Kids for their support, and of course I'll need yours, too. I don't mean to say you're not high profile! It's just that... I just meant... let me try this again. I'm asking you and anyone sympathetic to the cause to please help spread the word. Share this post on Facebook and Twitter, CLICK HERE to sign the petition, and encourage others to do the same. Just think, maybe one day you'll be able to tell your grand children that YOU played a role in getting Middle Child's Day the attention it deserves. To which they'll probably say, "That's awesome, Grandpa. When's Middle Child's Day?" Oh well, you can't blame a Middle Child for trying.


If you'd like to hear me say the same thing over and over (while trying to make it sound different), a selection of Middle Child's Day interviews will soon be posted on the Smack Dab Channel in the "Smack Dab LIVE!"section.

Wednesday, August 13, 2014

Middle Child's Day Update #8: Going to Bat for the Mid Kid!

These teams have made the Middle Child's Day
"A Team" by hosting "Mid Kid Appreciation Nights"
on August 12th and throughout the season.
These teams received Honorable Mention for
acknowledging Middle Child's Day
at their August 12th home games.

Thanks to all the teams for making the Middle Child the center of attention -- at least for one night!!

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Middle Child's Day Update #7: NEW Middle Child's Day Greeting Cards are here!

     It's a Smack Dab Blog exclusive! Middle Child's Day greeting cards from MidMark -- when you care enough to not care too much. You won't find them in any store. Trust me, I looked. Show the Middle Children in your life how you really feel about them. Like they don't already know. Simply share this post with them -- could it be any easier give a Middle Child the attention they so desperately seek? No, it could not. And it still won't be enough -- but do it any way, otherwise you'll never hear the end of it. Here's a link to last year's cards if you want to really ratchet up the attention.
Don't forget to check out the Smack Dab Shop for great MidKid gift ideas.

Check upcoming Middle Child's Day updates for:
        * Middle Child's Day Honor Roll: complete list of MiLB and independent league teams
         honoring Middle Child's Day.

Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Middle Child's Day Update #6: MidKid Icon Gallery

     In honor of Middle Child's Day, change your Twitter, Facebook or any social media profile pic to one of these 50 make-believe and real-life Mid Kids or logos:
Darlene Conner
Donald Trump
Corey Matthews
Malcolm WIlkerson
Danny Partridge
Sue Heck
Stephanie Tanner
Alex Dunphy
Amy Adams
Anne Hathaway
Corey Matthews
Bill Gates
Britney Spears
Bruce Lee

Monday, August 4, 2014

Middle Child's Day Update #5: BRAD PITT Stars in the World Premiere of the Mid Kid Anthem!

     Okay, okay -- so BRAD PITT is not a Middle Child. And BRAD PITT doesn't exactly star in this video either. It's more like four measly seconds of BRAD PITT. But I figure the more I mention BRAD PITT (5X so far), the better the chances are of anyone actually paying attention to the video. I mean, it is a Middle Child video, after all -- a little help from BRAD PITT couldn't hurt.(6X, but who's counting.)
     The "Mid Kid Anthem," sung to to the tune of the 80's hit by Simple Minds featured in the John Hughes' classic coming of age film "The Breakfast Club," features more famous Middle Children then you can shake the short end of the stick at -- 101 to be exact. (See if you can name them all. The complete list is here.) Showcasing famous Mid Kids helps shift the negative stereotype of Middle Children away from being whiney 2nd class citizens, and shows we can achieve great fortune and fame, and still be whiney!
     So without further ado, and just in time for Middle Child's Day, it is with great pleasure I present to you  "The Middle Child Anthem," with a special appearance by none other than BRAD PITT (sorry, I couldn't help it). Please rise...

Check upcoming Middle Child's Day updates for:
       * Famous Mid Kid Icon Gallery: download and update your profile pages for Middle Child's Day.
       * NEW Middle Child's Day greeting cards (Click here for last year's.)
       * Middle Child's Day Honor Roll: complete list of MiLB and independent league teams
         honoring Middle Child's Day.

Friday, August 1, 2014

Middle Child's Day Update #4: Show Some #MidKidPride

Don't forget to wave your virtual Mid Kid flag on Middle Child's Day!
Use #MidKidPride on your social media all day long. Why not start now?
     Middle Child’s Day is the one day a year we get to bask in all our Mid Kid glory. I can hardly wait for all the festivities and flag waving. Of course, there will be no parades or parties. And we certainly don’t have a flag -- so I created one!
     Like all flags, it has symbolic meaning: the large green and blue blocks on either side represent the older and younger siblings, and all the attention they get. That little thin white stripe of nothingness in between them? That’s what we get. A whole lot of nothing. As you'd expect, just like any self-respecting flag, ours also has a motto -- in Latin, no less: 

“Attentionem Ante Omnia” -- “Attention Above All.”
     But what good is a flag without a pledge? Now we needed one of them, too. So how do you cook up the perfect pledge? Just follow this easy recipe. Take one part Pledge of Allegiance, mix in a helping of Boy Scout Oath, a pinch of Postal Service Motto, just a splash of Naturalization Oath and “Voila!” There you have it -- the "Middle Child Pledge of Allegiance."  Please repeat after me:

I pledge allegiance, to the flag, of the International Middle Child Union,
and on my honor, I will do my best, to do my duty,
and support and defend the by laws of the Union against all siblings, older and younger,
Whether snow or rain or heat or gloom of night,
With impartiality and attention for all.

Check upcoming Middle Child's Day updates for:
       * The WORLD PREMIERE of the "Mid Kid Anthem" and music video.
       * Famous Mid Kid Icon Gallery: download and update your profile pages for Middle Child's Day.
       * NEW Middle Child's Day greeting cards (Click here for last year's.)
       * Middle Child's Day Honor Roll: complete list of MiLB and independent league teams
         honoring Middle Child's Day.

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Middle Child's Day Update #3: Be a Card Carrying Mid Kid on Aug. 12!

     In case your behavior isn't already a dead give-away, here's all you need to prove you're a Middle Child! FREE membership in the International Middle Child Union verifies your Mid Kid status, and says to the world, "Hey, look at me!! I'm a Middle Child!! I said HEY, LOOK AT ME, I'M A MIDDLE CHILD!!!!"
     You can become a member or show your support for the I.M.C.U. by subscribing to the Smack Dab blog, following @MidKidMusings on Twitter, or by "liking" the Facebook SmackDabPage. If you're a Middle Child, you've already paid your dues!!

Right click and "Save Image" to download and print out your
very own I.M.C.U. membership card.

Check upcoming Middle Child's Day updates for:
       * The unfurling of the NEW Middle Child flag and Pledge of Allegiance.
       * The WORLD PREMIERE of the "Mid Kid Anthem" and music video.
       * Famous Mid Kid Icon Gallery: download and update your profile pages for Middle Child's Day!
       * NEW Middle Child's Day greeting cards (Click here for last year's.)
       * Middle Child's Day Honor Roll: complete list of MiLB and independent league teams
         honoring Middle Child's Day.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Middle Child's Day Update #2: Mid Kid Gift Guide

          There are less than 20 shopping days 'til Middle Child's Day, and you still haven't found the perfect gift for the Mid Kid in your life? Typical Middle Child treatment! But no worries -- the  gift experts at the Smack Dab Blog (a.k.a. me) know just what to get that special someone who says they never get anything as good as their brother and sister:
     There's nothing like curling up with a good book on Middle Child's Day. All by yourself. Waiting for no one to call. Nothing like it. There are plenty of classic Mid Kid titles to choose from, including "The Invisible Man" by H.G. Wells and S.E. Hinton's "The Outsiders."
      Middle Children LOVE games! No one ever asks us to play, but Middle Child's Day would be the perfect time to let a Mid Kid win a game or two. That's probably not a bad idea any day. What could be a better gift than making a Middle Child feel like a real winner -- at least for a day.
     The "Official" Flower of Middle Child's Day. Could anything say "I remembered not to forget you today" better than a bouquet of Forget-Me-Nots? Oh, I don't know, maybe a nice watch? A new iPad? But I guess we'll take whatever attention we can get.
     Make Hand-Me-Downs feel like Brand New. Hand -me-downs would be great, if only they were never worn before. Now, the Middle Child (and anyone who's not a first born) can have the best of both worlds: "Never-Worn-Before Hand-Me-Downs" are now available at the SmackDabShop, where you'll also find a collection of Middle Child merchandise -- something for every Middle Child on your list!
 (All royalties donated to UNICEF, to benefit ALL children.)

Check upcoming Middle Child's Day updates for:
       * The WORLD PREMIERE of the "Mid Kid Anthem" and music video.
       * Famous Mid Kid Icon Gallery: download and update your profile pages for Middle Child's Day.
       * NEW Middle Child's Day greeting cards (Click here for last year's.)

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Middle Child's Day Update #1: Coming Soon to a Stadium Near You

          It all started as a joke... 
          Just days after I wrote about my miserable memories of Little League ("Welcome to the Middle Leagues") and posted the accompanying Middle Child musical salute to opening day, ("You Never Take Me Out to the Ballgame,") I found myself on my way to a Florida Marlins home opener with friends. "Gee, I wonder if tonight is Middle Child Night at the stadium?" I quipped. "You know, that's when you bring your Middle Child to the game, and they don't pay any attention to him!"
          A flurry of ideas ensued: bring your Middle Child to the game, and there will be special prizes for their brother and sister. Get free parking if you bring your Middle Child -- you just have to leave them in the car. You know, stuff like that. But the next day I read some articles about the craziest promotions Minor League teams have done in the past -- everything from casket and liposuction giveaways to a "Salute to Indoor Plumbing Night" where the stadium bathrooms were closed and porta-potties were used instead to promote appreciation for indoor plumbing. Suddenly, "Middle Child Appreciation Night" didn't seem so crazy after all. So I started pitching the idea to teams all across the country -- and teams said YES!

          At first, I was convinced it was some cruel prank being played on the unsuspecting, attention seeking Middle Child. Teams would agree, then decide to pull out just for laughs. Or they'd simply forget altogether when the day came around. I'm still not convinced that won't happen. But as of now, 24 teams are going to bat for the Middle Child! Two have already had their nights. They both lost, by the way. Oh, and one team lost power during the game. One is happening as I write this. (UPDATE: they won!) A list of teams and dates is below, but most are happening right on August 12 -- Middle Child's Day. (I'll update the map and list if more teams sign on.) A whole bunch of other teams have agreed to acknowledge Middle Child's Day at their August 12th home games. They've earned a spot on the "Middle Child's Day Honor Roll" which I'll post in the coming weeks.
          A BIG thanks to all those teams for throwing some attention our way, and making the Middle Child feel like the most important member of the family. At least for one night.

MAY 14: Charleston Riverdogs L JUNE 24: Frederick Keys JULY 16: Acadiana Cane Cutters  W JULY 20: Columbia Blowfish  W JULY 29: Hickory Crawdads AUG 4: Gastonia Grizzlies AUG 10: Princeton Rays  AUG 11: Lowell Spinners AUG 12:  Boise HawksCamden Riversharks, Corpus Christi Hooks, Forth WorthCats, Gary South Shore Railcats, Greeneville Astros, Johnson City Cardinals, Lancaster Jethawks, River City Rascals, SiouxFalls Canaries, Southern Maryland Blue Crabs, Wilmington BlueRocks, Winston-Salem Dash AUG 13: Elizabethton Twins AUG 15: Jackson Generals AUG 26: Toledo Mudhens

Check back here for more Middle Child's Day updates, including:
       * The WORLD PREMIERE of the "Mid Kid Anthem" and music video.
       * Famous Mid Kid Icon Gallery: download and update your profile pages for Middle Child's Day.
       * NEW Middle Child's Day greeting cards (Click here for last year's.)
And don't forget to check out the Smack Dab Shop at Cafe Press for great Middle Child's Day gifts.
(All royalties donated to UNICEF, to benefit ALL children.)

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Screwed (or maybe NOT screwed) Again!

As reported in an article on the Huffington Post, it seems Middle Children are the LEAST likely to find love later in life! Now, I'm sure I can find research that might dispute these findings. I mean, I've been happily married for 31 years if that means anything. But what if they're right? What if the odds really are against Middle Children finding ultimate happiness?? Somebody has to do something!! Maybe this will help...

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Middle Child Masterpiece Theater

It's all Middle Child, all the time, featuring classic, memorable Middle Child Moments. The most complete (and only) TV Middle Child archives in the world -- take that, Smithsonian! If you know of any worthy submissions, or if you have additional information about archived clips, please let me know and they'll be added. Future additions to the archives will be viewable on the Smack Dab Channel...

Middle Child: Jan Brady (Eve Plumb) "Her Sister's Shadow" Season 3/No. 10  Originally Aired: November 19, 1971

Middle Child: Cory Matthews (Ben Savage)
"The B-Team of Life" Season 1/No. 14
Originally Aired: January 28, 1994
Middle Child: Sue Heck (Eden Sher)
Episode: TBD
Originally Aired: TBD
Middle Child: Danny Partridge (Danny Bonaduce)
"Did You Hear the One About Danny Partridge?" Season 1/No. 9
Originally Aired: November 20, 1970

Middle Child: Darlene Conner (Sara Gilbert)
"Dances with Darlene" Season 3/No. 23
Originally Aired: April 30, 1991
Middle Child: Stephanie Tanner (Jodie Sweetin)
"Middle Aged Crazy" Season 2/No. 10
Originally Aired: January 6, 1989

Middle Child: Danny Partridge (Danny Bonaduce)
"You're Only Young Twice" Season 3/No. 6
Originally Aired: October 20, 1972

Middle Child: Chris Griffin (Seth Green)
Episode: TBD
Originally Aired: TBD

Middle Child: Malcolm Wilkerson (Frankie Muniz)
"Malcolm Holds His Tongue" Season 4/No. 7
Originally Aired: January 5, 2003

Friday, June 13, 2014

A Tale of Two Father's Days

It was the best of Father’s Days, it was the worst of Father’s Days….
     You might expect me to be raising the Middle Child Syndrome Advisory to its highest level for Father’s Day, just as I’ve done for most other holidays. After all, it is yet another opportunity for family to get together -- which means there’s always the potential for lifelong festering Middle Child issues to arise. So why am I not sounding the alarm? For Middle Children, Father’s Day can really be a double edged sword.
     If you, like me, are a Middle Child who is also a father, Father's Day can actually be a very good day -- a Middle Child’s dream come true. We get to be the center of attention for the entire day! It’s like a law. Everyone has to pay attention to us. (Well, at least my children have to. My wife refuses to submit. When I drop my heavy handed hints about what gifts I’d like, she’s quick to remind me, “You’re not my father!”) Oh well. Nevertheless, there's still a lot of mandatory attention to be had, and when you’re a Middle Child, you’ll take any kind of attention you can get -- even if it’s forced attention.
     In some ways, I think Father’s Day may even be better than your birthday. People forget birthdays. There are so many and they’re all scattered throughout the year. It’s only natural if some birthdays, usually mine, slip through the cracks. But we all remember Father’s Day. Everyone (and their father) is celebrating it, all on the same day, so it’s kind of hard to forget. Have you ever seen a belated Father's Day card? I rest my case. Unlike a birthday, getting attention on Father’s Day is pretty much a sure thing. That’s a big plus for us paternal Mid Kids. But what if you’re not a Middle Child patriarch? What if you’re just a plain old Middle Child celebrating your father’s Father’s Day? Well, that can be a whole other story.
     You may get the crazy idea that this is your big chance to be Dad’s favorite. You might think the way you can accomplish this is by outdoing your siblings and giving the best gift. You’ll get Dad a Best Buy gift certificate or buy that cordless sander he really wants, and you’ll be the “winner.” I hate to burst your bubble, but I’d like to save you some money -- that’s not gonna happen. I’ll tell you what is going to happen.
     Your little sister will give him some dirty rock with googly eyes pasted on it and a glued on piece of macaroni for a smile with little pipe cleaner hands holding a sign that says, “Dad, you rock!” which she made just that afternoon when she realized she didn’t have a gift; your older brother will give him yet another Dentist sculpture like he does every Father’s Day; and your father will say, “These are the most amazing and original gifts ever!” Meanwhile, you’ll give him that sander you thought he really wanted, and he’ll ask if it’s returnable. (Of course, if you gave him the rock or Dentist sculpture, you would never hear the end of it --ahh, the joy of being a Middle Child!) But hey, it’s Father’s Day – it’s not some Middle Child pity party! Just suck it up and wait 58 more days ‘til Middle Child’s Day. And hope someone remembers.